Oh No! My Child Said Something Racist
Your kiddo just said something racist.
Trust me, as a parent myself, I can feel your pain, hear your groans of embarrassment and sense your anxiety.
But what do you do now?
If you are here listening to this podcast and participating in this community, I know you are working toward creating an anti-racist and inclusive world for your kids. But guess what? Despite our very best efforts, sometimes kids — and, let’s be honest, even we as adults — make prejudiced comments.
Yes, these comments need to be addressed. We can’t just sweep them under the rug and pretend they didn’t happen, or else growth and change in our communities will never happen. Although making mistakes ourselves or hearing our little ones make mistakes may feel like the end of the world, it doesn’t have to be if we use these moments as teaching opportunities.
The First Name Basis Podcast is here to help. In this episode, you will learn:
- Why it is important to teach our children about who they are and where they come from and that differences are normal.
- The 5 B’s of how to respond to kids when they say something racist (Be proactive, be calm, be curious, be clear, be reflective).
- How to apply the 5 B’s using a specific example.
- How to keep the conversations going so you can continue to learn together as a family.
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Articles, Studies & Podcasts Referenced in the Episode
First Name Basis Podcast: Season 1, Episode 4: “Using Your Culture to Build Your Child’s Sense of Self”
“Anti-Bias Education for Young Children and Ourselves,” by Louise Derman-Sparks and Julie Olsen Edwards
Britt Hawthorne’s website
Tiffany Jewell’s website
“Start Here, Start Now” by Liz Kleinrock
Song credit: “Sleeper” by Steve Adams” and “Dive Down” by VYEN