Love in A Time of Crisis: Parenting and Activism
There’s a phrase I’ve seen pop up over and over again among influencers (specifically white people on social media who consider themselves parenting experts) that makes me want to lose my mind…
“What you need to be doing right now is loving your children.”
Don’t get me wrong: Loving your family is and always will be important. But when they say that, are they encouraging you to do anything differently than what you are already doing? To change anything? To take action to make the world a better place?
If your favorite parenting expert is telling you to do nothing differently and you believe them, you’re selling yourself short.
What I want to help you see through this episode is loving your family and activism go hand in hand. You have so much power to model what it means to be an activist, to teach your children to make a difference and to invite them to take action right along with you — all of which is one of the best things you can do for these little humans that you love so dearly.
Bite-Sized Black History
Bite-sized Black History is a program that empowers you to teach the little ones you love about brilliant Black Americans who have been largely overlooked by our history books. We featured 12 different people in Season 1 of the program and are featuring 12 all new Black Americans in Season 2. Season 2 is live, invest today!
Articles, Studies & Podcasts Referenced in the Episode
First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 20: “5 Tips for Talking to Children About News”
First Name Basis Podcast, Season 2, Episode 6: “The Untold Story of Dr. Seuss”
First Name Basis Podcast Season 2, Episode 5: “A Conversation With My Dad About Black History Month” with my dad Ken Clarke
First Name Basis Podcast, Season 2, Episode 26: “My Working Mom: Chasing Her Dreams” with my mom Dr. Leslie Telfer
First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 17: “Ask Dr. Leslie Telfer (aka my mom)”
First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 15: “A Survival Guide for Women in Male-dominated Fields” with my sister, Nina Clarke-Telfer
First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 21: “How to Teach Media Literacy to Our Children”
“How to Raise a Reader” by Pamela Paul and Maria Russo of The New York Times
“Role Model the Behavior You Want to See From Your Kids” by Amy Morin
Support Ukrainian People With Disabilities in Crisis
Song credit: “Sleeper” by Steve Adams” and “Dive Down” by VYEN