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Season 9 Episode 2: Don’t Do THIS During Black History Month

Don’t Do THIS During Black History Month

In case you haven’t noticed yet, I’m passionate about Black History Month. I did not enjoy learning about Black history growing up. It felt more like grieving than celebrating for…

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Let’s Celebrate Black History Month!

Let’s Celebrate Black History Month!

Can you believe February is right around the corner?! And with it comes BLACK HISTORY MONTH!! Celebrating Black History Month is so important for ALL kids, not just Black children,…

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Work With Me: First Name Basis at Your School

Work With Me: First Name Basis at Your School

We’re wrapping up Season 8 with this episode, and it’s got me thinking all about our evolution over the years. From beginning as a tiny Instagram account to starting the…

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We Are Anti-Racist and Anti-Genocide

We Are Anti-Racist and Anti-Genocide

Like so many of you, I have been all consumed the last few weeks by the events going on in Gaza and the genocide that is being carried out against…

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Black and Brown Emojis Are Not a Punch Line

Black and Brown Emojis Are Not a Punch Line

This episode can be summarized with one sentence: Please stop using Black and Brown emojis if you are not Black or Brown. Skin color is something that should be celebrated,…

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Invisible Lynching and What It Says About the Fight for Justice

Invisible Lynching and What It Says About the Fight for Justice

Trigger warning: Before you continue reading these show notes or listening to this episode, please be aware that it discusses lynching and white supremacist violence. Lynching is a reality both…

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Raising Multiracial Children with Dr. Jennifer Noble

Raising Multiracial Children with Dr. Jennifer Noble

Growing up as a multiracial child, I often felt my racial identity shifting and developing — heck, even as an adult I do! Navigating what it means to be multiracial…

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3 Things I’ve Learned On My Anti-Racist Journey with Rachel Nielson

3 Things I’ve Learned On My Anti-Racist Journey

This episode is a bit of a role reversal with someone I admire SO MUCH.  I have been a longtime fan of Rachel Nielson’s podcast 3 in 30: Takeaways for…

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Let’s Talk Language: Under-Resourced

Let’s Talk Language: Under-Resourced

Language is always evolving and we need to evolve with it. Reflecting on the words we’re using and recognizing opportunities to grow and change is a natural (and necessary) part…

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Teaching Children About Disabilities

Teaching Children About Disabilities

July 26, 2023, is the 33rd anniversary of the Americans With Disabilities Act. If you’re doing the math in your head, let me give you a shortcut: That means the…

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My Journey: Resisting White Supremacy Culture and Finding Joy

My Journey: Resisting White Supremacy Culture and Finding Joy

Y’all, I’m gettin’ REAL in this episode. We always talk about how anti-racism is a journey not a destination, and it’s so important to take time to reflect on that…

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All Children Need “The Talk” with Alicia D. Williams

All Children Need “The Talk”

Parents of Black children are all too familiar with “The Talk.” “The Talk” where they teach their kids not to have their hands in their pockets at a store. “The…

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The Untold Story of “The Star Spangled Banner”

The Untold Story of “The Star Spangled Banner”

You probably learned in school all about the story of Francis Scott Key watching the “rockets red glare” and “bombs bursting in air” as a prisoner on a British warship…

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The Story of the First Openly Gay MLB Player: Glenn Burke

The Story of the First Openly Gay MLB Player: Glenn Burke

Happy Pride my friends, especially to the LGBTQ+ members in our community! To celebrate Pride, I wanted to share an episode from my Bite-Sized Black History program that features a…

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Motherhood: An Unexpected Act of Resistance

Motherhood: An Unexpected Act of Resistance

This episode is a special one to me, one dedicated to all of the Black and Brown moms out there. A lot of my Black and Brown friends who are…

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What is Coded Language?

What is Coded Language?

I’ve been thinking a lot about coded language lately. If you’re unfamiliar with that term, coded language is when someone is talking negatively about a marginalized group without explicitly saying…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 8, Episode 1, "Bite-Sized Black History"

Bite-Sized Black History

Bite-sized Black History is a podcast just for kids that empowers you to teach the little ones you love about brilliant Black Americans who have been largely overlooked by our history…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “An Update On Our Cross Country Move”

An Update on Our Cross Country Move

It’s been a few months since we moved across the country from Arizona to Maryland, and I’ve gotten questions from so many of you wondering how we like our new…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Jesus Had Brown Skin”

Jesus Had Brown Skin

When we really take a moment to step back and think, it’s easy to agree that Jesus had brown skin because he was from the Middle East. If that’s the…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Your School Has a Diversity Statement. Now What?”

Your School Has a Diversity Statement. Now What?

We all know that 2020 was a wake-up call for a lot of people. It was a time of reflection, a time of change (hopefully), and a time where schools…

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“How to Center Indigenous Peoples During Thanksgiving” with Jalynne Geddes

How to Center Indigenous Peoples During Thanksgiving

I made my “Untold Story of Thanksgiving” episode to help me — and hopefully you — understand the true, accurate history. As I think about the episode, I think it…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Teaching Our Children About Unfamiliar Accents”

Teaching Our Children About Unfamiliar Accents

Have y’all ever driven down the East Coast? I don’t mean to spoil the magic for you but I gotta say, it’s basically a straight shot through a wall of…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “The Importance of Black and Asian Solidarity” with Joanna Ho

The Importance of Black and Asian Solidarity with Joanna Ho

To say I’m obsessed with New York Times bestselling author Joanna Ho’s novel “The Silence That Binds Us” is an understatement.  Yes, it’s a book technically written for young adults,…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Real Quick: Black Voting Power”

Real Quick: Black Voting Power

If you’ve been around a while, you’ve heard me say it hundreds of times: Race is a social construct. Race was created and has always been manipulated to make sure…

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Real Quick: Politicians Need Experience

Real Quick: Politicians Need Experience

Politicians need experience to do their job.  This may fall under the “unpopular opinion” category to some people, but it’s something I feel strongly about and have been thinking about…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “The Scariest Costume: An Untold Story of Appropriation”

The Scariest Costume: An Untold Story of Appropriation

When the team here at First Name Basis was doing the research for our recent episode “Alcatraz: An Untold Story of Indigenous Resistance,” we came across the story of the…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Children of Color in Schools: the Stories Behind the Statistics” with Stacey DeWitt and Paul Forbes

Children of Color in Schools: the Stories Behind the Statistics

One of the biggest messages we’re trying to get across with First Name Basis is that learning a person’s story and getting to know them as an individual is the…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Culture is Not a Costume: Cultural Appropriation and Halloween”

Culture is Not a Costume: Cultural Appropriation and Halloween

Can you believe that Halloween is just around the corner? I know some of you super-prepared parents out there are already getting costumes put together for your kiddos, and you…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Alcatraz: An Untold Story of Indigenous Resistance”

Alcatraz: An Untold Story of Indigenous Resistance

Alcatraz. What comes to your mind when you hear the name of that little island off the coast of San Francisco?  For me, I heard “Alcatraz” and I pictured that…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Age Appropriate Anti-Racism”

Age Appropriate Anti-Racism

My dear friends, we have been on this anti-racism journey together for 3 years, and it’s AMAZING to think about the growth we’ve gone through together.  Over the course of…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Oh No! I Talked About Racism and Made Things Worse”

Oh No! I Talked About Racism and Made Things Worse

I’ve heard from so many parents who have been listening to the First Name Basis Podcast and other anti-racist educators, have tried to implement the suggestions they learn as they…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Where Did Student Loans Come From and Why Is College So Expensive?”

Where Did Student Loans Come From and Why Is College So Expensive?

The fact that there is a need for student loan forgiveness really paints a picture of just how complicated education funding has become. So how did we get to this…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ Real Talk: You Should Support Student Loan Forgiveness”

Real Talk: You Should Support Student Loan Forgiveness

It’s been a few weeks since the White House announced a plan for student loan forgiveness, and in that time, you’ve likely seen all sorts of articles and social media…

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Ways to Make Immigration About People, Not Status

Ways to Make Immigration About People, Not Status

Immigration is about so much more than debates, laws and policies — it’s about people. Every person who has interacted with the immigration system has their own story that goes…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ You Are Not Meant to Do This Alone: The Power of Anti-Racist Community”

You Are Not Meant to Do This Alone: The Power of Anti-Racist Community

Anti-racism is meant to be done in community. It makes sense, right? This work is SO important and we need to be sharing it with others in order for change…

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How Can I Help My Kiddos Grapple With Hard History?

How Can I Help My Kiddos Grapple With Hard History?

You know what would really help us all out? If we realized that historical figures are more than the heroes/villains that we often reduce them to.  Although past presidents and…

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How Can I Show Up on Social Media When I Don’t Have All of the Answers?

How Can I Show Up on Social Media When I Don’t Have All of the Answers?

Social media feels like a double-edged sword: It can be a great way to keep in touch with family and friends and learn new things, but it can also be…

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Environmental Justice: What in the World Are Carbon Credits?

Environmental Justice: What in the World Are Carbon Credits?

“Carbon credit” is a trendy term you might have heard being used by businesses, government officials and the news media, but what exactly is it? We’re answering that in this…

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Anti-Racist Education at Home and in the Classroom

Anti-Racist Education at Home and in the Classroom

We want our children to embrace anti-racist education both at school and at home, but what does that actually look like?  We’re talking about anti-racism in the classroom for the…

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Creating Change in the Classroom

Creating Change in the Classroom

Classrooms should be places of growth, discovery and change, and as parents and caregivers we need to support teachers in fostering a positive environment for students. And Patrick Harris II…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 6, Episode 8, "The Untold Story of the Star Spangled Banner"

The Untold Story of “The Star-Spangled Banner”

You probably learned in school all about the story of Francis Scott Key watching the “rockets red glare” and “bombs bursting in air” as a prisoner on a British warship…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 6, Episode 7, "We are Moving Across the Country"

We Are Moving Across the Country

We’re packing our boxes and leaving the dry Arizona heat for the suburbs of Washington, D.C.! This move has been in the works for two years now, and I can’t…

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3 Things Children Need to Know About Slavery

3 Things Children Need to Know About Slavery

As a Black bi-racial person, learning about slavery growing up was so hard for me for so many reasons — it was traumatizing and heartbreaking to think about the conditions…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 6, Episode 5, "Your Loving Day Stories 2"

Your Loving Day Stories 2

I’ve always thought Mildred and Richard Loving’s last name was kismet: Mildred was a Black woman and Richard was a white man who loved each other and just wanted to…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 6, Episode 4, "Say This, Not That When Someone Comes Out to You"

Say This, Not That When Someone Comes Out to You

When a family member or friend chooses to come out to you, it is an extremely vulnerable moment for them, and how you respond is so important. You may find…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 6, Episode 3, "Racism is Built on a Big Fat Lie, Part 2: Uncle Tom and Other Myths"

Racism is Built on a Big Fat Lie, Part 2: Uncle Tom and Other Myths

If you’ve been here for a while, you’ve probably heard me say about a million times that race is a completely made up social construct — with no basis in…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 6, Episode 2, Thoughts Prayers and Actions We Need Stricter Gun Laws

Thoughts, Prayers and Actions: We Need Stricter Gun Laws

As a former teacher and a mom, I have a recurring nightmare that I’m sure many of you share: a constant, ever-present fear of my children — and any other…

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Racism is Built on a Big Fat Lie Pt. 1: Blood Quantum and the One Drop Rule

Racism is Built on a Big Fat Lie Pt. 1: Blood Quantum and the One Drop Rule

Think back to when you were a kid. Remember when you’d be playing a game and you were about to make an epic power move or even win the game,…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 18, "What Do I Do When My Child's School Says to Leave Anti-Racism at Home?"

What Do I Do When My Child’s School Says to Leave Anti-Racism at Home?

I recently received a question from a parent in our First Name Basis fam that boiled down to: what do I do when my child’s school says to leave anti-racism…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 17, "Teaching Children About Ramadan and Islamaphobia"

Teaching Children About Ramadan and Islamophobia

If you are not Muslim, perhaps you’ve seen Ramadan listed as holiday on your calendar but don’t really know what it’s all about. Well, here at First Name Basis, we…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ Age Appropriate Anti-Racism”

Age Appropriate Anti-Racism

My dear friends, we have been on this anti-racism journey together for 2.4 years, and it’s AMAZING to think about the growth we’ve gone through together.  Over the course of…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 15, "Say 'No' to White Feminism and 'Yes' to Intersectionality

Say “No” to White Feminism and “Yes” to Intersectionality

Sometimes when white women are at the start of their feminist journey they can get tunnel vision and make choices that ultimately harm Women of Color. Today on First Name…

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Let’s Have a Policy Party!

Let’s Have a Policy Party!

Y’all, I am sooooo excited that I can finally share this with you! It’s something that we’ve had in the works for a while now and something that I’ve been…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 13, "White Passing: What Does That Mean?"

White Passing: What Does That Mean?

“White passing” and “white presenting” are terms you’ve probably heard before when people are talking about being multi-racial, but what do they even mean? And where did they come from?…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 12, "Anti-Racism: Where Do I Start?"

Anti-Racism: Where Do I Start?

This episode answers one of the most common questions I receive: Where do I start? Press play if you’re taking your first step on your anti-racist journey or if you’ve…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 11, "Love in a time of crisis: parenting and activism"

Love in A Time of Crisis: Parenting and Activism

There’s a phrase I’ve seen pop up over and over again among influencers (specifically white people on social media who consider themselves parenting experts) that makes me want to lose…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 10, Redefining Relationships After Racism

Redefining Relationships After Racism

Racism is traumatizing no matter what, but when it manifests itself in your personal relationships, it is crushing. Dr. Lucretia Berry, an anti-racist educator, author, scholar and mother to three…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 9, Don't Wait Until Something Bad Happens to Talk to Your Kids About Race with Dr. Lucretia Berry

Don’t Wait Until Something Bad Happens to Talk to Your Kids About Race

It’s obvious that there is a need to talk about race with our kiddos when big events are in the news. But if that’s the only time we’re talking to…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 8, White Children and Uncomfortable History What Do We Do

White Children and Uncomfortable History: What Do We Do?

Since the push for anti-racism has become more mainstream some white children (and adults) are learning about the true history of the United States for the very first time. This…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 7, "The Untold Story of Rosa Parks"

The Untold Story of Rosa Parks

What did you learn about Rosa Parks growing up? You may have learned, like I did, that she was a tired seamstress on her way home from work and when…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, Episode 5, "Raising Multi-Racial Children"

Raising Multi-Racial Children

Growing up as a multi-racial child, I often felt my racial identity shifting and developing — heck, even as an adult I do! Navigating what it means to be multi-racial…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ Black Lives Matter: How Will You Respond?”

Black Lives Matter: How Will You Respond?

In the summer of 2020, author Veronica Chambers had what she calls an “aha moment.” Born in Panama and raised in Brooklyn, New York, Veronica’s Afro-Latina heritage has always been…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, “Stop Using MLK to Justify Racism"

Stop Using MLK to Justify Racism

Martin Luther King Jr. Day is less than a week away, and I couldn’t let this important day pass without another episode. This is actually my THIRD episode about Martin…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 5, "Rich People Commit Crimes Too"

Rich People Commit Crimes, Too

This past week we’ve had some deep and meaningful conversations about responding to the myth of “Black on Black crime.” As our conversations unfolded I realized that I left out…

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First Name Basis Podcast Season, Episode, “What About Black on Black Crime"

What About Black-on-Black Crime?

When a white person murders a Black person and we try to call it like it is — RACISM — there’s a response that, without fail, will crop up. The…

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First Name Podcast, Season 4, Episode 15, "Anti-Racism is a both and situation"

Anti-Racism is a Both/And Situation

When I first started learning about anti-racism, before I ever started First Name Basis, I remember thinking, “I wish I could just turn it off sometimes and enjoy things.” That…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 4, Episode 14, "Listen to This Before Your Holiday Dinner"

Listen to This Before Your Holiday Dinner

The holiday season can be a beautiful time of celebration, but if we’re being honest, it can also be extremely stressful — especially when it comes to spending time with…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 4, Episode 13, "How to Center Indigenous Peoples During Thanksgiving"

How to Center Indigenous Peoples During Thanksgiving

I made my “Untold Story of Thanksgiving” episode to help me — and hopefully you — understand the true, accurate history. As I think about the episode, I think it…

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3 Things I Wish White Moms Knew About Black Motherhood 

3 Things I Wish White Moms Knew About Black Motherhood 

Every mother experiences motherhood differently — no two journeys are the same. And there are some things that Black mothers experience that mothers who hold white privilege don’t fully understand….

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 4, Episode 11, "Our Kiddos Are Going to Change the World"

Our Kiddos Are Going to Change the World

In many ways, Emi Kim is what you might consider a typical 9-year-old. When she grows up, she wants to be a scientist or president of the United States, but…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Is Reverse Racism Real?”

Is Reverse Racism Real?

Have you ever heard a white person claim that they’ve experienced “reverse racism”? I sure have! Let’s break this down together because I’ve heard from many of you that you’re…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 4, Episode 8, "Can We Talk About White Privilege"

Can We Talk About White Privilege?

But really, can we? I know y’all are seeing it too. You’ve shared with me that once you know what to look for you’ve started to see it all over…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 4, Episode 4, "The Untold Story of Christopher Columbus"

The Untold Story of Christopher Columbus

We need to stop celebrating Columbus Day — immediately. The story that we learned about Christopher Columbus could not be further from the truth. He was a colonizer, enslaver, and…

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How to Respond to Stereotypes Against Asians

How to Respond to Stereotypes Against Asians

Books are such a powerful teaching tool because they give us glimpses into experiences beyond our own — which is something children’s book author Andrea Wang is an expert at….

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 4, Episode 5, "Culture is Not a Costume: Cultural Appropriation and Halloween"

Culture is Not a Costume: Cultural Appropriation and Halloween

I know some of you super-prepared parents out there are already getting costumes put together for your kiddos, and you may be wondering about cultural appropriation as you’re looking through…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 4, Episode 4, "Oh No! My Child Said Something Racist"

Oh No! My Child Said Something Racist

Your kiddo just said something racist.  Trust me, as a parent myself, I can feel your pain, hear your groans of embarrassment and sense your anxiety.  But what do you…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 4, Episode 3, "Black Lives Matter, Part 2: Over-Policing and Mass Incarceration"

Black Lives Matter and the Family, Part 2: Over-Policing and Mass Incarceration

Debunking the myth that Black Lives Matter is trying to destroy families is such an important topic, we’re spending our second week in a row talking about it. If you…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 4, Episode 2, "Black Lives Matter and the Family, Part 1: Enslavement"

Black Lives Matter and the Family, Part 1: Enslavement

The summer of 2020 was difficult and emotionally taxing for So. Many. Reasons. But one of the hardest things for me was hearing white parents say that they could not…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “(Not So Micro) Aggressions”

(Not So Micro) Aggressions

Microaggression may have “micro” in its name, but that doesn’t mean these assaults are small. Two women I admire so much for their anti-racism work explain it like this: “There’s…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 29, "Critical Race Theory in Schools"

Critical Race Theory in Schools

It’s basically impossible to open your news app without seeing a headline about Critical Race Theory, but what is it? Could you explain it to a friend if they asked…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 28, "A Real-Life Anti-Bias Teachable Moment"

A Real-Life Anti-Bias Teachable Moment

In this episode I walk you through the anti-bias approach that I took when my daughter came up against something in one of her library books that didn’t align with…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 27, "Anti-Racist Education at Home and in the Classroom"

Anti-Racist Education at Home and in the Classroom

We want our children to embrace anti-racist education both at school and at home, but what does that actually look like?  In this episode I interview Alexandria Scott, Founder and…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 26, "What is Juneteenth and How Can I Celebrate?"

What is Juneteenth and How Can I Celebrate?

Juneteenth is the oldest celebration of the abolition of slavery here in the United States. Every year on June 19th families come together to celebrate the resilience of our ancestors…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 25, "Your Loving Day Stories"

Your Loving Day Stories

54 years ago today Richard and Mildred Loving won their landmark Civil Rights case against the state of Virginia. Because of the Lovings states were no longer permitted to create…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 24, "The Loving Story"

The Loving Story

Richard and Mildred Loving never expected to be Civil Rights icons, they simply wanted to love one another and grow their beautiful family. Listen in to hear how the Lovings…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 23, "One Year After the Murder of George Floyd"

One Year After the Murder of George Floyd

Tuesday, May 25th, 2021 marks one year since George Floyd was brutally murdered by the police in Minneapolis, Minnesota. Here are 3 things you can do to show solidarity for…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 22, "The Danger of Gaslighting"

The Danger of Gaslighting

I think we can all agree that gaslighting is the wooooorst. When you share a vulnerable or tough experience with someone and they respond in a way that makes you…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 21, "How to Teach Media Literacy to Children"

How to Teach Media Literacy to Children

Okay y’all, I know I’m not the only one seeing these headlines that are absolutely bananas! Sometimes I read something and think “how is it possible that people actually believe…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 20, "5 Tips for Talking to Children About the News"

5 Tips for Talking to Children About the News

Current events are always tough, and it seems like they’ve been especially brutal and heart-breaking lately. Here are 5 tips for talking to children about the hard things going on…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 19, "How You Can Help Stop Voter Suppression"

How You Can Help Stop Voter Suppression

Are you fed up with voter suppression? Me too. This episode not only breaks down what’s going on with voter suppression but also gives action steps for what we need…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 18, "For Those of Us Who Need a Little Bit of Hope"

For Those of Us Who Need A Little Bit of Hope

Things have felt heavy lately and I thought we all might need a little hope. This is the audio from an IG live that I shared last week. Take some…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 17, "Ask Dr. Leslie Telfer, AKA My Mom"

Ask Dr. Leslie Telfer, AKA My Mom

Last time I had my mom, Dr. Leslie Telfer, on the podcast you had SO MANY great questions for her! After she shared about her 30 year career as a…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 16: "PSA: Women's History Isn't Just For Women"

PSA: Women’s History Isn’t Just for Women

This should go without saying, but I’m gonna say (shout) it anyway: WOMEN’S HISTORY ISN’T JUST FOR WOMEN. n this episode I interview Ashley Aikele and Elyse Beard, the founders…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 15, "A Survival Guide for Women in Male-Dominated Spaces"

A Survival Guide for Women in Male-Dominated Spaces

Women are tasked with navigating male-dominated spaces each and every day. As an electrical engineer my sister, Nina Clarke-Telfer, knows how frustrating it can be to fight for the respect…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “The Untold Story of Fried Chicken”

The Untold Story of Fried Chicken

We’re all familiar with the stereotype that Black people love fried chicken. It has been used to degrade, dehumanize, and uphold racism. But where does this stereotype come from? And…

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Bringing Chinese Culture Into Our Homes

Bringing Chinese Culture Into Our Homes

Since the start of the pandemic the Asian-American community has faced heightened discrimination, racism, and violence. In this episode I give concrete examples of what it looks like to stand…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 12, "How to Celebrate Black History Month"

How to Celebrate Black History Month

Are you feeling a little overwhelmed when it comes to celebrating Black History Month? In this episode I share the key to a meaningful Black History Month celebration. If you’re…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 11, "The One Thing I Wish You Knew About Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr."

The One Thing I Wish You Knew About Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Unfortunately, Dr. King’s dream has not yet come true. In this episode I explain the second phase of his dream, one that we are still working on today. Bite-Sized Black…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 10, "The Untold Story of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr"

The Untold Story of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

This month we have the opportunity to celebrate one of America’s greatest heroes, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Today we’ll learn about and understand the untold story of Dr. King….

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Racism 101

Racism 101

If someone asked you “what is racism” how would you respond? Would you be able to help them understand the different ways that racism rears its ugly head in our…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 8, Jesus Had Brown Skin

Jesus Had Brown Skin

When we really take a moment to step back and think it’s easy to agree that Jesus had brown skin because he was from the Middle East. If that’s the…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 7, "Service, Not Saviorism"

Service, Not Saviorism

Are you serving or trying to save? In this episode I unpack white saviorism and the detrimental effect that it has on communities in our backyard and across the globe….

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 6, "Our Thoughts on President Oaks' and Elder Cook's Conference Talks"

Our Thoughts on President Oaks’ and Elder Cook’s Conference Talks

In the most recent General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, LDS Church leaders began to speak more directly about racism, unity, and inclusion. Carter and…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 5, "Anti-Racism in the Wild"

Anti-Racism in the Wild

You know that feeling you get when you’re surrounded by pine trees, breathing the crisp mountain air, and feeling the stresses of everyday life slowly melt away? Well, unfortunately that…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 4, "The Untold Story of Christopher Columbus"

The Untold Story of Christopher Columbus

The story that we learned about Christopher Columbus could not be further from the truth. He was a colonizer, enslaver, and sex trafficker who committed genocide against Indigenous Peoples. Don’t…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 3, "The Untold Story of Thanksgiving"

The Untold Story of Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is right around the corner and that means that us parents are faced with the question of what to tell our children about this (somewhat controversial) holiday. You probably…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 2, "Real Talk: Cultural Appropriation and White Supremacy"

Real Talk: Cultural Appropriation and White Supremacy

On the surface cultural appropriation might not seem very harmful, but when you peel back the layers it is clear that cultural appropriation is a function of racism and perpetuates…

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First Name Basis Podcast, Season 3, Episode 1, "Your Top 5 Cultural Appropriation Questions Answered"

Your Top 5 Cultural Appropriation Questions Answered

Cultural appropriation can be so confusing. We all want to learn about and celebrate other cultures while making sure we don’t cross any lines or embrace stereotypes and caricatures. In…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “My Working Mom: Chasing Her Dreams”

My Working Mom: Chasing Her Dreams

Now more than ever women and girls are being encouraged to share their gifts, talents, and intelligence with the world in spectacular ways! So what does it look like to…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “The Power of Representation with Mijha Godfrey from Jambo Book Club”

The Power of Representation with Mijha Godfrey from Jambo Book Club

Representation is critical for all children in all spaces. Children can’t be what they can’t see, so they all need to see and experience people of many different backgrounds leading…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Cancel Culture Pt. 2: What Is Cancel Culture And What Do We Do About It?”

Cancel Culture Pt. 2: What Is Cancel Culture And What Do We Do About It?

Cancel culture is difficult to define and widely viewed in a negative light. It could be defined as a modern form of protest or boycott and therefore it has an…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Cancel Culture Pt. 1: Calling Out, Calling In & Tone Policing”

Cancel Culture Pt. 1: Calling Out, Calling In & Tone Policing

In this first episode of our three-part cancel culture series, we lay a foundation for the conversation by getting clear about the difference between calling someone out and calling someone…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “How You Can Support Anti-racist Educators”

How You Can Support Anti-racist Educators

Anti-racism work is critical to creating the community that we all want, and those of us who have been called to lead this movement are carrying a heavy load. In…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “The Untold Story of ‘The Star Spangled Banner’”

The Untold Story of the Star Spangled Banner

You probably learned in school all about the story of Francis Scott Key watching the “rockets red glare” and “bombs bursting in air” as a prisoner on a British warship…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “The Danger of Spiritual Bypassing”

The Danger of Spiritual Bypassing

There have been many different types of reactions to the calls for racial justice that are going on in our country right now. If your social media looks anything like…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “What is Juneteenth?”

What is Juneteenth?

Juneteenth is the oldest celebration of the abolition of slavery here in the United States. Every year on June 19th families come together to celebrate the resilience of our ancestors…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Ahmaud Arbery and George Floyd: Unpacking Racism”

Ahmaud Arbery and George Floyd: Unpacking Racism

Right now our country is reeling from the murders of our Black brothers and sisters. You may be confused by all of the uprising and rebellion, but you need to…

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First Name Basis: “How to Avoid Cultural Appropriation”

How to Avoid Cultural Appropriation

Celebrating the people around us and their unique cultures can be exciting and incredibly enriching! But where is that fine line between cultural appropriation and cultural appreciation? When we take…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Diversity and Inclusion in LDS Art” with Michelle Franzoni Thorley

Diversity and Inclusion in LDS Art

Recently The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints published an announcement that they are going to regulate the artwork that is displayed in our meeting houses. This was…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ What Is Privilege And What Do I Do With It?”

What Is Privilege And What Do I Do With It?

White privilege is one of the strongest pillars that upholds racism. In her article “White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack” Peggy McIntosh describes white privilege as: “An invisible package of…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ Teaching Our Children About Immigration”

Teaching Our Children About Immigration

Immigration is one of those things that we really struggle to agree on as a country. No matter your feelings or political leanings, everyone deserves to be treated with dignity…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “How to Talk to Your Children About Racism”

How to Talk to Your Children About Racism

Racism is a topic that can be hard to know where to start when talking to your kids about it. It’s important to be honest about it, but how can…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ Cinco de Mayo is Not Mexican Independence Day”

Cinco de Mayo is Not Mexican Independence Day

It seems like we need to shout it from the rooftops because most Americans are pretty convinced that Cinco de Mayo is Mexican Independence Day, and that is just not…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ Let's Talk Language: Black or African-American?”

Let’s Talk Language: Black or African-American?

This episode answers the number one question I’ve been asked since starting First Name Basis: How do I know whether to say ”Black” or “African-American”?  I went straight to the…

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First Name Basis: “How to be a Liberator”

How to be a Liberator

We had an amazing conversation on Instagram and I really didn’t want you to miss it! I shared a post about resisting the temptation to be seen as a savior…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ How The Coronavirus Pandemic Unmasks Inequality In Our Society”

How The Coronavirus Pandemic Unmasks Inequality In Our Society

I’m sure you’ve seen the headlines: The Black community has been hit the hardest by the coronavirus. Infection rates in Black counties are 3 times that of infection rates in…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “The Untold Story of Rosa Parks”

The Untold Story of Rosa Parks

What did you learn about Rosa Parks growing up?  You may have learned, like I did, that she was a tired seamstress on her way home from work and when…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ A Conversation With My Dad About Black History Month”

A Conversation With My Dad About Black History Month

In this episode my dad and I dig deep about the importance of Black History Month. This is one of my favorite conversations I’ve ever had on the podcast because…

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First Name Basis Podcast Season 2, Episode 4, “ 3 Steps To A More Inclusive Bookshelf.”

3 Steps To A More Inclusive Bookshelf

The books that we have in our bookshelves speak volumes about who and what we value.  In this episode I share the 3 steps to making your child’s bookshelf more…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ Bringing Chinese Culture Into Our Homes with Children's Author Andrea Wang”

Bringing Chinese Culture Into Our Homes

Lunar New Year is right around the corner. What are you doing to teach your children about the traditions and history of this holiday?  Listen in to my conversation with…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ 3 Ways to Celebrate Martin Luther King Day That Honor His Legacy.”

3 Ways to Celebrate Martin Luther King Day That Honor His Legacy

If creating a society that is just and inclusive is our goal, we need to do more than post a quote and a photo on social media on Martin Luther…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ The Untold Story of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.”

The Untold Story of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

We have the opportunity to celebrate one of America’s greatest heroes this month, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. During the month of January we will learn about the untold story…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ Native American Voices Pt. 2”

Native American Voices Pt. 2

Michael Bennet is a husband, father of two, and an attorney for the Navajo Nation. In this episode he shares: The importance of looking outside yourself to learn about the…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ Native American Voices Pt. 1”

Native American Voices Pt. 1

In this episode we interview Ryan Kamper. Ryan is from the Diné (Navajo) Nation. He is of the Folded arms people born for the Anglo-Saxon people, his maternal grandfather is…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ How to Teach Your Children About Thanksgiving”

How to Teach Your Children About Thanksgiving

So now that you know the untold story of Thanksgiving, how in the world do you teach your children about it? Don’t worry one bit friend, I have 4 concrete…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ The Untold Story of Thanksgiving”

The Untold Story of Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is right around the corner and that means that us parents are faced with the question of what to tell our children about this (somewhat controversial) holiday. You probably…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “The Face of DACA”

The Face of DACA

In this episode we interview Ivan Aragon, a DACA (Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals) recipient. Ivan is from Chihuahua, Mexico and came to the United States with his family when…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ How to Celebrate Dia De Los Muertos”

How to Celebrate Dia De Los Muertos

In this episode we interview Catrina Gandara, a fellow podcaster who was born and raised in Mexico. Catrina grew up celebrating Dia De Los Muertos and has carried on those…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “ Teaching Our Children About the Deaf Community”

Teaching Our Children About the Deaf Community

In this episode we interview Chad Kennedy, a Deaf ASL Professor at BYU and UVU. Chad teaches us the following: His experience at a hearing school vs. a Deaf school…

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First Name Basis Podcast Season 1, Episode 9: “ Small Wins: Teaching 3rd Graders About Melanin, Race, and Civil Rights”

Small Wins: Teaching 3rd Graders About Melanin, Race, and Civil Rights

In this episode, we share stories of how we’ve used the lessons we learn through First Name Basis in real life.  Jasmine tells the story of how she was taught…

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Deaf History & Culture: Why You Shouldn’t Ask a Deaf Person if They Can Lipread

Deaf History & Culture: Why You Shouldn’t Ask a Deaf Person if They Can Lipread

In this episode we get a brief overview of Deaf history and culture, including the history of American Sign Language. Carter begins the episode discussing his background and how he…

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Down Syndrome Awareness and Acceptance

Down Syndrome Awareness and Acceptance

This episode is a treat!  We talk with Carter’s little brother, Parker, who has Down syndrome. Parker shares some details of his life and what he wants us to know…

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Speaking Respectfully About People Who Have Disabilities

Speaking Respectfully About People Who Have Disabilities

This episode is the first in a series called “Let’s talk language.”  Here, we’ll discuss how language can be used thoughtfully to communicate respect. We’ll explain the importance of “people…

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Family History Dinner

Family History Dinner

In this episode you will hear about “Family History Dinner,” an activity we developed to appreciate and learn about our own ancestors. This was a special opportunity to connect with…

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Using Your Culture to Build Your Child’s Sense of Self

Using Your Culture to Build Your Child’s Sense of Self

Did you know that teaching your children about their heritage can actually build their sense of self? Find out why and learn the vocabulary you need to teach your children…

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Talking to Your Children About Slavery

Talking to Your Children About Slavery

Although slavery is a dark part of our nation’s history, it is important that we don’t turn our backs on the truth. This episode identifies some common missteps that parents…

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Talking To Older Children About Race

Talking To Older Children About Race

You know that it’s time to talk to your older child about race but you haven’t had a minute to sit down and a take dive deep — and let’s…

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First Name Basis Podcast: “Talking to Young Kids About Race”

Talking to Young Kids About Race

Some parents have the mistaken idea that their young children are “color-blind” but research shows that this is not the case. The Life Kit for Parents podcast states, “Kids are…

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